Backyard Wedding Guide
o, you’ve picked out the perfect wedding dresses and now you’re thinking, “What if we just did it at home?” Honestly, I love that for you. Backyard weddings have this cosy, real charm about them — like one big love-filled BBQ with better outfits and less burnt sausages. But just because it’s at home doesn’t mean it’s all set-and-forget. There’s a bit of legwork involved to make sure your backyard bash doesn’t turn into a logistical nightmare.
Start With the Vibe
Start by figuring out what kind of vibe you’re going for. Not budget, not guest list — just the feel. Are you picturing fairy lights, long tables, maybe a band playing while everyone dances on the lawn? Or is it more chill — picnic rugs, fire pits, and beers from an esky? Once you’ve got that image in your head, everything else becomes way easier to plan.
Yep, You Might Need to Call the Council
Now I hate to bring the mood down, but you might need to call your local council. If you’re whacking up a marquee or having 50 people roll in and out of your street, it’s worth checking about noise limits and parking. Not romantic, but super necessary.
Sort Out the Essentials
Sort Out the EssentialsSame goes for power — your average house isn’t ready to run a full-on DJ setup, kitchen gear, and lighting. Hiring a generator is just smart. And toilets — don’t make 60 people share your ensuite. Trust me. Get some proper event ones; they’re not what you think, they’re actually decent these days.
Have a Weather Backup (Seriously)
The big wildcard, of course, is weather. We all hope for sunshine, but this is Australia. A stretch tent or marquee is peace of mind in canvas form. You don’t want to be explaining to your guests why they’re knee-deep in puddles with soggy canapés.
Don’t Burn Out on DIY
Now here’s the part where people go rogue — DIY overload. A backyard wedding can absolutely save you money, but don’t try to do everything. Get a couple of pros in for food or drinks, maybe even someone to run the day so you’re not directing traffic in your wedding dress. You’re meant to be having a drink, not stressing about whether the arancini is burning.
Dance Floor? Go for It
And yes, you can 100% have a dance floor. Lay some boards, check the ground is flat, and go nuts. Just don’t forget to warn the neighbours. Better yet, invite them. One less person to complain about noise and who knows, they might bring a decent bottle of wine.
Make It Yours
What’s great about a backyard wedding is that it’s yours. Every detail, every weird little touch — it’s all you. Serve fairy bread if you want. Let your dog be ring bearer. Play whatever music you like. The memories hit different when they’re made right at home.
